HOW TO HOOK THAT IGBO MAN FOR MARRIAGE

Hundreds of thousands of Igbo single ladies will be heading to their villages and other parts of Igboland within these Christmas and New Year seasons hoping to start relationships with Igbo men that will lead to marriages. But hooking and dating an Igbo guy need lots wisdom, skills and strategies before the relationship will lead to the altar. Here are my winning tips for the ladies both as a relationship adviser and as an Igbo man:

1. DRESS DECENTLY: An average Igbo man is very conservative and may not approve your dressing that shows off your intimate female anatomy. Those tight fitting trousers, miniskirts and transparent blouses will scare him away that you are a hustler not a wife material. keep them far from him and his family.


2. NEVER SHOW SUPERIORITY: No matter your family or educational success, never try to prove to an Igbo man that he is inferior. He has a very large ego to a point of pomposity. Never tell him that another guy dress better than him, speak better or a better gentleman than him. He is the King of his jungle and treat him like a Prince.

3. ALLOW HIM TO SHOW YOU OFF: You are like a new precious jewel or even a new car, please allow him to show you off to friends and relatives. Be his Queen with humility and class. Holding his hand in public makes him to walk with a confident swagger.

4. SHOW REAL INTEREST IN HIS FAMILY: Ask after his relatives and memorize their names. Dating an Igbo guy is dating his entire family especially his mother and sisters. Befriend them, speak well of them and be nice to them or they will rock your love boat

5. DRAW A LINE ON SEX: Some unmarried Igbo men do not ask for sex, they demand it as sign of a ladies commitment to the relationship. In fact, some will refuse to propose until the lady agrees to be his constant sex partner. If a lady foolishly fall to the trap, she had cheapen herself before him and devalued her dignity. Many real players and hit and run Casanovas that are using marriage proposal as a hook to an unending sexual encounters with the lady

6. NEVER ASK HIM FOR MONEY: Some ladies believe that Igbo men are ATM that foolishly and carelessly dispense money without thinking but the guys are very wise and smart. Asking him money for recharge cards, sharwama, Ice cream and transportation gives you away as a material girl. Instead of asking for money always like a beggar, buy fruits, ties, singlet and other gifts for him. He will respect you and reciprocate by giving you good gifts and money too

7. NEVER CORRECT HIM IN PUBLIC: My brothers can be talkative and may mix up tenses and even say I ROVE YOU instead of I LOVE YOU but just smile and pat him at the back. Correct him gently later when two of you are alone. Try to speak Igbo to him and ask him always about his business, health and family members.

8. BE SPIRITUAL-No responsible man wants to marry a club girl or a lady indifferent to spiritual matters. Never project yourself as someone only interested in night clubs, beer palours and watching masquerades. Buy Bible for him as New Year gift. Buy audio and video CDs for his spiritual growth. But never behave as a Born again fanatic that is too judgmental and not social

Now that you are armed with all these, I wish you goodluck in your search quest.

From and Igbo brother