Promises Men Can Never Keep - (Check Them Out)

George & his wife 

It's usually easy to make promises expecially when the emotional feelings are high. Men are usually the culprit but we have gathered that over time, these promises become impossible to keep.  They renege on them leaving you heartbroken.  Let's review some of them.



Read on and get the clarifications:

(1.) I WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU: sometimes this line of promise is often time misunderstood. The lady could assume that you will be in constant touch,  but when reality strikes nagging and complainsee enshew and if not properly handled, it could degenerate to something bigger. There are times both of you will be in two different places. For instance when you go to your various offices or when one of you is on official assignment out of your locality. What matter most is faithfulness ­though you may be out of sight but not out of heart. Don’t play a fast game against one another. Let there be re-assurance and constant phone calls echoed with this magical trio i.e. “I love you”.


(2.) I WILL NEVER HURT YOU: It is not possible for two people to live together without offending one another. He will definitely offend you while you too cannot but offend him.
Though it may not be deliberate even in courtship, expect it. If he’s keeping a clean sheet in courtship ­beware! He must be pretending and he will later explode in marriage. Certain actions of his will hurt you but you must be ready to forgive without nursing its wound. Expect mis-understanding, it is the pathway to understanding. No matter what happens, friendliness should be a hallmark of a Christian home because ­marriage is a union between two imperfect people working towards perfection.


(3.) I WILL DO EVERYTHING FOR YOU: He must have turned this to lyrics that is sang to your hearing almost every time you meet but the truth is you will be disappointed in marriage, If this is your expectations because he can’t do everything for you. He may teach you how to drive, pay the house rents, buy clothes for you but consider when he will be down without physical ability to do anything even machine, breakdown atimes. Just expect that he will care especially  during pregnancy,that he would  demonstrate care during thoses difficult period, making sure you do not lack anything.

(4.) I WILL PROVIDE FOR ALL YOUR NEEDS: Don’t go into marriage with the aim of having all your needs met lest you lose passion for the man you married. There atimes when something are not within his reach which may be due to financial inability. Of course, he can’t give you what he didn’t have.

You don’t have to be offended for marriage is not just about receiving alone, you too have to give something in return-contribute your own quota towards the development of that union. Complement one another’s effort. Don’t look for what to get rather seek for what to give. He can’t provide for all your needs, only God can do this. Get this into your mind and don’t be offended while he falls short of this.

(5). I will be Everything You Desire In Your Man,  Sister, believe this at your peril. He might do his best to act up, but it's better he is himself so that you know what you are getting yourself into. Both of you should be true to who you are.